|
What introverted leaders said about developing
one-to-one relationships:
- “I find that if I take the time to build good one-to-one relationships -
particularly if I have the opportunity for a longer one-to-one chat,
perhaps on a train - or over a meal, then work flows much better than
if I try to get everything done in work. But I have to be aware and
initiate this myself with people - and ensure that I am not invading
their own personal space/time!”
- “Working with individuals on a one-to-one (and one-by-one!) basis,
rather than trying to interact with a group as a whole.”
- “I was coaching an introvert who struggled to get himself heard, he
was in a team where [the others] all talk over each other, so I helped
him develop strategies that depended on one-to-one relationships.
Operating in the big group didn’t work for him so I had to help him
find another way of having a voice.”
- “My introversion has had a positive impact on my relationships with
others on a one-to-one basis. I give a lot to individuals who I am
working with - and some of my most rewarding times in my career
have been when I've been working with one other person, whether
that's a subordinate or a manager.”
- “I have developed deep long term work relationships/friendships with
people at all levels based on mutual respect. This has often stood me
in good stead when I have come to a new project or new role and found
I am working with someone who remembers me from "way back"...
Because I don't feel the need to be centre stage I am happy to give
colleagues and/or subordinates the limelight and encourage them to
take responsibility and credit for their work. This accelerates their
development path. I have had loyal staff with low turnover. This is
not purely down to introversion but my introversion contributes as
above.”
|